Pyaar

 Pyaar 
           ek aisa shabd jiske upar to na jane kitne logo ne apne vichar diye,kuch ne achha kaha to kuch ne bura kaha,kuch ne safalta ka karan bola to kuch ne barbaadi ka,,kuch ne ise sachha kaha to kuch ne faltu sa adambar.Mai kisi ka support ya kisi ki kami nhi bataunga,,pr ha jo maine pyaar me feel Kiya vo jrur bataunga.
Kyuki jb tk aapne kisise pyaar na kiya ho,tbtk pyaar pr comment krne ke rights apke paas to nhi ho skte.😊

Mera ye manna hai ki ye nature hi prem ki paribhasha hai aur yahi hame pyaar karna bhi sikhata hai.Jb hum is duniya me aaye to hme apne maa baap se bhot pyar tha,jo umr bhar rhta hai,,apne bhaiyo se bahno se aur agar aap extrovert ho to kuch khaas rishtedaaron se bhi connection ban hi jata hai,jise aap apnapan sa ya pyar kahte ho.
Par jb aap jindagi me aage badhte ho to apko apne opposite gender ke insaan se jrur connection feel hota hai,,kyuki ham insaan hai,aur bina jeevansaathi ke ham adhoore hai.
Ek aadmi ek aurat ko,aur ek aurat ek aadmi ko, poora karte hai.Isiliye to striyo ko ardhangini aur purushon ko striyon ka ardhanga kaha gya hai.
Connection bhi kayi type ke hote hai,,pr insaan ko chahiye ki kisi bhi connection ko pyaar kahne se phle achhe se soche,kyuki pyaar bhot hi pure aur selfless hota hai.Manta hu ki pyaar connection se hi shuru hota hai,pr har connection pyaar nhi hota.Aur mai to bilkul nhi manta ki pahli najar me kisiko dekho aur turant on the spot pyaar ho jaye..Kyuki pyaar sundarta to dekhta hai par vicharo ki aur inner heart ki,,aur innerbeauty dekhne ke liye bhot patience rakhna padta hai,bhot kuch sahna aur jhelna padta hai.

Agar apko pyaar hai,to socho kyu hai,kya uski beauty,personality,money,fame,traits,aur behaviour ki vajah se ya koi aur reason.Sach kahu to agar apko koi bhi reason bhot dhoondhne par mil bhi jaye to samajh lena ki vo pyar nhi bs attraction hai,,kyuki jis din uske paas ye sb nhi hoga,yha tak ki vo behave bhi theek se na kre,tb aap kya kroge,tb to aapka so called pyaar hawa me ud gya.Aur aajkal YHI ho rha,aur isiliye breakup,divorce aur pata nhi kya kya ho rha.
Pyaar me to complaining nhi solution hota hai,breakup to chhodo shaq ki bhi jgah nhi hoti,aur chahe jo situation aaye pr saath hmesha rhte hai.

Phle to pyaar karna mushkil hai kyuki kaun khud ko bhool kar, completely khud ko dusre ke liye devote kr de,,agar pyar ke bhi liya to apne pyaar se pyaar pana mushkil hai,kyuki koi insaan kisise kitna pyaar krta hai YHI koi nhi samajh pata,,aur agar dono pyaar kr bhi le to samaaj saath nhi deta,,pr jo har mushkil se ladke apne pyaar ko bacha le,apne liye nhi,jisse pyaar hai uske liye,,to jindagi swarg ban jaati hai.

[Ummed hai apne jrur itna padhkar kuch Paya hi hoga,aur mujhe jrur bataye ki mera sochna glat to nhi.]

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